A practical guide for high‑net‑worth early retirees who want to spend with intention. Real trade‑offs from the FATFire community. Frameworks that buy back time, peace, and freedom and not just status.
You hit your number. The calendar is yours. But without structure and clear decision frameworks, even the best‑funded days can feel oddly aimless. Most “post‑FIRE” advice is either frugality in disguise or lifestyle flexing. This guide is neither.
Ideal Day, Reverse Budget, and “Avoiding Drift” help you align spending with what you actually value.
Private school vs. enrichment, chefs vs. meal prep, business‑class rules of thumb, second homes, and more.
Patterns and pitfalls distilled from thousands of conversations across the FIRE/FATFire communities.
This blueprint contains 32 unique chapters and over 191 pages
One‑time purchase. Lifetime updates. No upsells.
PDF + lifetime updates • Practical frameworks • Actionable checklists
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Is this a mindset book or a practical guide?
Practical. It’s built around decision frameworks and trade‑offs. You’ll know when an upgrade makes sense, and when it’s lifestyle drift.
Does it tell me what to buy?
No shopping lists. It shows you how to evaluate private school, chefs, house staff, business‑class, concierge medicine, second homes, and more through your own values and constraints.
Who is this for?
High‑income/wealth folks in or near FIRE who want to enjoy life without turning it into a full‑time job.
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From People Who’ve Been There
“Hit my FI number, then drifted for months. The Ideal Day + Reverse Budget combo fixed the aimlessness. I spend more, but on the right things.” — r/FIRE user
“Business‑class is worth it for 6+ hours or when you land and need to be ‘on’. Otherwise we save the cash for the destination.” — r/awardtravel
“We almost bought a second home. Ran the real numbers (time + upkeep) and rented instead. Zero regret.” — r/FatFIRE